So since the odds are not good for your average Joe should average men even bother with online dating?
Did the women you talked to explain, or did you ask, about the CONTENT of those messages, or the PROFILES of the men messaging them?
Women seem to be more selective and email only someone they are potentially interested in. Be a quality guy and eventually you'll meet a quality girl.
So getting more messages doesn't' mean women get more dates. Till then, don't be a player and use the force only for good Luke."So since the odds are not good for your average Joe should average men even bother with online dating?
If your regular email account gets filled up withoffers from Big Box Electronics Retaileroffers from Amazonoffers for lotteriesoffers for Viagraoffers for "sexy time web cam"offers for elementary school teachersoffers for discounts on school suppliesoffers for new credit cardsetc...
do you treat those the same as messages from old friends, new friends, colleagues, family members, anyone interesting to you?
I want to take that "I do fairly well for a guy" quote out because it sounds arrogant when I am not. But the general consensus seems to be if your getting any mail at all as a guy that is good.
But I understand the points about junk mail and I am happy I do not get that.i'd rather just come for the forums.funny how that works.I've read once upon a time that the women that get the most emails like you describe are approximately 21 years old....they get the average amount at age 26.Well jamisond, you are young reasonable attractive and have a well written profile.I would guess that some of the guys that are complaining, have about two lines on their profile. One of the supposed advantages to internet meeting is we actually get to see if we have any common ground.It is a waste of time, but that time is bound to be wasted somehow toward the same end. That covers about two thirds of the male population. Yet, it led to three dates and quality time at the opposite end of the spectrum from 'waste'.