As you can see its not all sex with us or we'd be meeting more than we do.
We are there for one another in ways our live in partners are not.
i didn't knew at first that he is married,, i'm really in love with him and i tried hard to break up with him but i couldn't.
i'm sure he loves as much as i love him we have been together for about two and a half years.
We have a strange situation but it works for us, yet I know its wrong.
am 24years old madly in love with a mm, have known for 5years but dating for 2 years now, he is married with 2 kids one is 15 and other 12 he is not happy with his wife and they first all the time because my cousin is thier neighbour and tells me everything, this couple is European and am an african, now this guy is wiling to divorce his wife for me, but he is saying that i have to first promise him that am committed to him , am scared to say yes because we are 20years difference and dont want to be commited now yet i dont want to loose him,what can i do please help me???
I started to realise that he was a married man, a cheating husband! Even so, I couldn't let go of him because I thought I loved him to the max.
He even let me believe that he was my soulmate and more sweet words started to come out of his mouth.
Finally, I took all my courage together, bought a few of the break up books available on the market (My favourite til this day: "It's called a break up because it's broken by Greg and Amiira Behrendt"), silently making a plan in my head to stop having a relationship with a married man.
I knew that even if losing him would cause a pain so great, staying with him was wasting my heart, emotion, and time.
One word of caution though: Do not fall into a rebound relationship - dating is good, but don't lead them on too much if you don't intend to love them..you know what I mean.
In time, you will seriously find a better love, someone who you can tell the whole world: he is yours.
on the other hand it could be that be that he has some sffections for his wife as he is obligated too.