This means you have to open the door to intimacy and let other people in.This includes inviting physical touch, asking personal questions and being brutally authentic.
The misconception about walls is that they will protect you from unnecessary hurt.
While this could be true you also make creating intimacy and attachment impossible.
They think about this relationship and they make choices that are aligned with their desires such as attending more parties, joining clubs or volunteering.
Getting into a relationship starts with creating an attachment between you and other people.
Question what you believe about dating and constantly ask yourself if what you believe is true.
Choose to play devil’s advocate with everything you think about dating or the opposite sex. By opening your mind you put yourself in a position to change your outcomes.
If you are single and you want a relationship then it’s you’re responsibility to figure out how to get one and blaming others or making excuses won’t cut it. You have to go from a person who is single to a person who is in a relationship and that will be a slightly different person.
Einstein stated you can’t solve a problem with the same thinking you used to create it.
Let go of any excuses that make finding love impossible.