If your ex isn’t really interested in getting back with you, or if your ex is already in love with someone else, you may have a hard time changing their mind.
If your ex is willing to take a chance on the relationship again, that’s good for you.
You may be tempted to start hugging and kissing each other, with spurts of I-love-you’s and I-miss-you’s, but hold that thought.
It’s the first time both of you have been together since the break up.
Are the differences repairable, and are both of you compatible with each other, especially when you’re considering a long term relationship.
[Read: How to fix a relationship] The novelty of getting back with an ex It’s an exciting thought, getting back with an ex always is.
In reality, you may only be riding on a sexual high of making out with an ex. Use the first few dates to really understand if this relationship is worth a second chance.
[Read: Sleeping with an ex] Let each date help both of you evaluate the potential of the relationship. Don’t get back immediately Unless the sparks are flying all over and passionate bursts of romance flood the room as soon as your eyes meet on the second first date, don’t get back into love immediately.
The temptation to have sex with an ex by the end of the first date may drive you into a horny frenzy, but unless your ex too has the same intentions, stay away from getting physically intimate.
Having sex with an ex can feel so good, but you have to understand that it will definitely cloud your judgment and make you think you’ve fallen back in love.
If you’re convinced about it, perhaps a relationship with your ex is going to work out just fine.