It’s also a good reason to take a relationship with someone older or younger at a slow pace.
his dry sense of humor kills you, and dang those eyes!
Your biological clock is ticking away, meanwhile his might not even be turned on.
And then you learn that the same year you graduated college, he was wrapping up his freshman year—of high school.
Dating someone younger—whether you’re two or three years his senior or are talking cougar territory—certainly can work (look at Eva Longoria and her 4-years younger beau), but being an “older woman” in a relationship does tend to come with certain perks and downfalls.
Be selective about your battles and learn to compromise on things that aren’t vital to your relationship, she recommends.
If a lot of your guy’s friends are like him—young and single—going out to bars until 4 a.m.
That being said, I know that it might seem weird to date someone younger than you.
You might be worried about what other people will think, and that’s completely understandable.
Sure, you’ll have dinner dates, but also be ready for, say, a 10-mile hike one weekend followed by an indie rock concert the next.
Younger men are as adventurous outside of the bedroom as they are inside it, and they’ll bring out a more youthful, vibrant side of you, says Lori Bizzoco, founder and executive editor of Cupids “He will see you as smarter and worldlier, so he’ll want to please you, not just physically but emotionally and intellectually,” she says.
“A man can sometimes make his girlfriend feel like more of a mommy-figure than a peer,” Ludwig says.