Would you date someone who's not even legally separated, but living apart?
I'll never understand the whole, separated, but not moving towards divorce thing.
To me its a way to avoid divorce and think one has their freedom too.
There was actually a woman I had high interest in for a while, however, she was seperated, apparently the divorce was in the works for a while, something about the delay in the papwork in regards to the business they both previously owned.
Since it was one of those "Up in the air" divorces, I decided not to go for it, while some guy who considers a still technically married woman as fair game anyhow, while I did not, so I didn't pursue her.
Another woman he dated was legally divorced with her ex husband still living in her house. Even if he hated his wife and they hadn't had sex in years, no one is ready for a serious relationship so soon. But I've been with my GF for over a year, and she trusts me and knows it's over.
Would you date someone who's not even legally separated, but living apart? These types are only good for "fun."Each situation needs to be evaluated on it's own circumstances. I will divorce, but there really isn't a need to rush right now for us.
There's this one attractive woman around my age, talked to her at a couple of parties at a friends house, she comes alone.
From talking to her, she seems to have been letting her divorce drag on forever, she's talking about how he's dating a Hooters waitress, but they've "just never gotten around" to divorcing.
She had some kind of lazy attitude about it, as if they were in NO rush The wierd thing, they have NO kids, so there's no reason they should NOT have a speedy divorce.
He must be keepin him around as a F-buddy or something.
Well, obviously it hasn't worked out for a lot of people but it worked out for me.