It is never easy to face differences in religious beliefs in any dating/marriage relationship especially when it involves family backgrounds, and the Jehovah’s Witness policy of “shunning” those who leave the religion compounds the complexities of your situation.
You asked if you would be allowed to continue your dating relationship with this lady if you were to convert to this religion to please her Jehovah’s Witness parents.
If she does not obey right away and cut her relationship off with you, she will be “disfellowshipped.” If your motive for wanting to convert is simply to win the approval of her family and the Jehovah’s Witness leadership, it will not take long before the elders in her congregation will be able to detect your limited loyalty to the organization.
Then Jehovah God said: "It is not good for the man to continue to be alone.
I am going to make a helper for him, as a complement of him." Genesis JWMatch is a way for Jehovah's Witnesses and interested ones to build loving and trusting friendships that can lead to lasting relationships in the real world.
If you are not willing to put the dictates of this organization and its leadership over your own personal life goals and agendas, you might as well forget the notion of becoming a Jehovah’s Witness.
Partial loyalty is simply not acceptable in this religion.
DATING AND MARRYING A JEHOVAH’S WITNESS: Should I convert to the Jehovah’s Witness religion to continue dating my Jehovah’s Witness girlfriend?
What should we expect if I don’t convert and she leaves her religion for me?
Jesus said: “I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through Me.” —John 14:6 5.
You don’t need to enslave yourself, your marriage, and your family to the dictates of a religious organization in order to have eternal life because Jesus said we are to go “through” Him alone for truth and life: A few years ago, we counseled a Christian man who was in a position much like yours.
The beauty of meeting and relating on JWMatch is that you can do this in a safe, anonymous and fun environment.