Even after we have slept together, he still reaches out to me and ask me on dates (outside his place); like we go to the cinema, we go eating, etc.The thing is he texts me once a week or we see eachother once a week (We both are pretty busy during the week). Does he still reaches to me because he wants the sex ? I really want to have the dtr talk because I don't want to continue somthing that will lead to nowhere but I'm afraid its too early for that...The guy today told me he had hooked up with someone because he assumed I was but it wasn't like a couple weeks ago, it was friday night and now when hes telling me this its sunday morning.
But when I tell him what's wrong he says he doesn't have a commitment problem and he's just waiting for someone. When I said I couldn't meet him when he originally wanted to and he found out I was seeing someone else he got very sulky.
So I used it as an excuse to ask about my insecurities.
He said we're too busy at the moment since we're both students but when he graduates he wants more.
Which suggests either he's thinking of a future or is just stringing me along. He deleted tinder before he saw me but he didn't mention it to me I just asked him when I noticed.
He's mentioned seeing him a little since then but I'm not sure if he's being serious.
He has slept with a lot of girls, which makes me not trust him and he's extremely smooth.Some hours later he went home with me and we hung out a couple of hours before he kissed me. When I drove him to the buss stop he asked me to come visit him. It was pretty early so he made us breakfast before we just hung out at his place.We talked about a trip he went on a year ago and he showed me some pictures from that trip and some family photos. we met for the first time, hit it off, flirted then he added me on Facebook and asked for my number the next day.The day ended with him making us pancakes before I went home. I want us to be friends again, we should only hook up if we are committed. we made out a bit after dinner and he called me over the next day. i bumped into him a week later and he tried hiding from me but it didn't work. Out of all those days he's usually texted me first (on two occasions, I started the conversation or responded to his text from the night before) and on three days (in the beginning), there were no texts at all.When he made that batter for the pancakes he held me and kissed me while he was cooking. We met 8 years ago in a college which I left and he stayed. We seem to get along really well- he's alluded to other things we should do together and there's been a tone of laughing and deep convos too!An hour or so later he said one more question and said I wasn't going to ask yet because I wasn't sure but since we've mentioned it, do you want to be exclusive.