Instead, find ways to fund therapy, thinking about it as an investment in the quality of your life.First, know that there are therapists out there who will work for considerably less money per hour than 0.
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After all – you probably never have trouble coming up with money when you need it to feed your exhibitionism.
Third, recognize that therapy is a temporary expenditure – it doesn’t have to go on for years to be helpful.
Some of these contacts lead to phone calls, or inter-net video activity.
Once I made an actual in person meeting, but played a charade as to who I really was. I want to break this compulsion to go on-line and find pleasure this way.
You state that you are ‘tired’ of your exhibitionism, but in the same paragraph you also state that you derive more satisfaction from your exhibitionism than from relations with your wife.
I get the sense that you find your exhibitionism and internet sexual activity to be compelling, and are not 100% behind wanting to quit. It doesn’t mean that you aren’t sincere in wanting to quit; rather it suggests that (like any addict) you may be of two minds about giving up this important, if self-destructive, activity.In your case, a solution might be to ‘out’ yourself to your wife, asking for her help in monitoring your compulsions, and then get rid of home internet access. Again – this doesn’t have to be permanent – even a temporary extended break of several months may help you to interrupt your habits and give you the space to develop new ones.Heck, you can put the money you save on internet costs towards therapy.I’ve seen quality therapy be offered at rates in the per hour range near major cities.Second, find ways to come up with the necessary money, possibly by giving up some subscription services that you don’t really need (like cable television, a cell phone, an expensive car loan, etc.) With some creativity, you can find ways to come up with the cash if you are motivated to do so.It takes most addicts several tries at recovery before they get it right and are able to maintain sobriety for any extended period of time.